One Lazy Summer Day, I Broke my Heart

Next time you fall in love, make sure it's at the right time and with the right person. Fall in love when your mind's stable, not just when you instantly go crazy over someone you met. Fall in love not because of lust or the longing for companionship but purely for the sake of love. Fall in love but think first before you do. Sometimes, it's okay to use the mind and brace yourself from the rush of emotions or the tickling butterflies. Think first and think twice, you'll love with no regrets. Fall in love but not too deeply, for in the depths it's dark, desolated, lonely... Though you may not notice it at first. Fall in love but not too soon. It feels better--- a love that is unhurried and laid-back, calm, without pressure. Fall in love but be prepared to be defeated, to be hurt or worse, to be killed, for loving is like going to war. The only difference is that in war, they break your bones while in love, they break your heart. Fall in love but know that it's painful. Of course it's F-A-L-L-I-N-G in love. We all experienced falling as children and gained scraped knees because of it so if you fall in love too many times, expect callouses or injuries. Fall in love but don't expect too much. Most of the time, loving is just a one-way relationship and it's called unconditional love --the category where the fools and the martyrs of love belong. Above all, fall in love but be wise. Don't give your all unless you want to be a loser who ends up with nothing.